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Muslim Teen Perspectives on Islam and Life, by Somayya Gefori

The Benefits of Volunteering

WRVS Shop

August 2008

The Benefits of Volunteering

by Somayya Gefori

I recently started a volunteer job in my local hospital. I work for the WRVS (Women’s Royal Voluntary Service) who have two shops in the hospital, in which all the proceeds go into helping older people in the community. For this reason it doesn’t bother me that I am not being paid. I feel good for helping out. I work one three-hour shift every week. We are like a little corner shop, we sell hot and cold drinks, and snacks. I have heard about many people who don’t get on with their bosses, but I get on very well with my manager, Maureen. She is older than me, but I feel she is friendly and easy to talk to.

WRVS LogoThe WRVS was first set up in 1938 as the Women’s Voluntary Service. (The ‘Royal’ part was later added on by the current Queen Elizabeth). WRVS was initially formed to help civilians during the Second World War - in evacuation, emergency feeding and providing general care and support. Basically, while the men were away fighting, the women were doing their bit in helping with the war effort.

As you can imagine, it feels pretty good to be involved with a charity like this. WRVS is now 70-years old, and I feel I am now part of its history. I am also proud that I am able to work wearing my jilbab and hijab. My intention was not to work in a job in which I would made to remove any of my religious dress. I am free to wear them in my volunteering job, and for that I am glad. When non-Muslims see Muslims committed to their religion, we can only hope they respect us for that. It is also a good form of dawah. Some Muslims like to hide away, and never mention their religion. Non-Muslims are honest in what they do outside work and socially, so why not be equally honest and let them know how you live your life? You may find that James Cook Signthey are very interested, as I have found on many occasions.

The hospital I work in is called the ‘James Cook University Hospital‘, in Middlesbrough. It is named after the explorer Captain James Cook, who was born and grew up in an area of Middlesbrough called Marton, which is where the hospital is situated. There is another reason I feel good about working here: last year I had my burst appendix removed in this very hospital. I feel as if I am giving something back, in a way.

Working in the shop at the hospital is not the only volunteering I’m up to this year. I will also be volunteering in the creche at the 2008 JIMAS Conference in Leicester. So why not take up volunteering in your community? It’s a feel good activity that helps others.

Visiting Libya: Palm Trees, Petrol and Green Square

Tripoli's Red GateJune 2008

My Visit to Libya

by Somayya Gefori

I visited Libya for the second time in my life in December 2005. My first time was when I was two years old and whatever I know of that trip is what my parents told me, as I do not remember it. So going for a second time felt like my first time. I flew there on Libyan Arab Airlines (now Libyan Airways) from Heathrow Airport with my mother, two of my three brothers and my sister. My father grew up in the capital city, Tripoli (not to be confused with Tripoli, Lebanon). I felt glad that my father was from a city. I am one of those people who can’t cope without a working shower and amenities! No camping in the woods for me! At least when I ran out of my beloved toiletries, there were shops that sold all the brands you see in the UK.

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Does Wearing Traditional Clothing Make You Happy?

British girls in traditional Bangladeshi clothing

April 2008

Does Wearing Traditional Clothing Make You Happy?

by Wael Abdelgawad

Here’s an article from the BBC that says that Bangladeshi girls in the UK who wear traditional clothing are happier than those who wear Western clothing. Personally I think they’ve kind of missed the point. But read it yourself and see what you think:

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Where Do I Belong? The Dilemma of a Mixed-Race Muslim

Libya map and UK map blendedMarch 2008

Where Do I Belong?

The Dilemma of a Mixed-Race Muslim

by Somayya Gefori

I am a mixed race Muslim, which sounds simple in itself, but I can often find myself thinking, ‘Where do I really belong?’ I am Libyan on my father’s side, and English on my mother’s side. Oh, how much easier it must be to just be one race! You know right away where you belong, and there’s nobody around you saying, ‘But Libya is better!’ and vice-versa.

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Entertaining the Muslim Youth

January 2008

Entertaining the Muslim Youth

by Somayya Gefori

786, a Muslim Singing Group

When I was a young child, my family listened to the likes of Yusuf Islam in the car. Nowadays there are many nasheed artists, and over the last decade the industry has practically exploded with new talent: Native Deen, 786, Sami Yusuf, Zain Bhikha and Mesut Kurtis, to name but a few. Nor does this trend in entertainment come without controversy.

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Hijab is an Attitude, not a Fashion

Young Muslim woman wearing JilbabNovember 2007

Hijab is an Attitude, not a Fashion

by Somayya Gefori

Hijab is not something we wear as a fashion statement, it is not merely a piece of clothing. Hijab is part of the Islamic way of life, hijab is an attitude, a way of thinking and behaving.

There is such a saying as a woman being clothed, yet naked. This means that she is wearing clothing, but it is so tight and transparent, that it could hardly be called clothing. Even if the clothing is long, if it is tight and figure-hugging, so that it reveals a woman’s shape, it is not hijab.

Hijab is not only wearing a scarf on your head, it also means to cover your awra.

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JIMAS Leicester Islamic Conference 2007

September 2007

JIMAS Leicester Islamic Conference 2007

by Somayya Gefori

JIMAS Islamic conference posterI have just recently returned home from the annual JIMAS (Jam’iat Ihyaa Minhaaj al-Sunnah) conference, which is held every year on the August British Bank Holiday weekend. It lasts from a Friday through to the Bank Holiday Monday morning. This year’s topic was “Healing the Fragile Earth. Fulfilling our Heavenly Trust”. Many lectures were given on the topics of being environmentally aware and looking after the environment, which is something we should do as Muslims.

A Popular Event

Speakers are invited to the conference, which is held at Leicester University’s Residential site in Oadby, Leicester.

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Blood Donations Save Lives

August 2007

Blood Donations Save Lives

by Somayya Gefori

Muslims can donate blood as charityI am now a regular blood donor, after recently donating blood for the second time.

In the UK, there is a blood donation service called NBS (National Blood Service), which is part of the NHS blood and organ transplants, (National Health Service). NBS collect donated blood all over the country, by organising donation sessions, usually in community centres. These are voluntary and donors are not paid. That’s what makes it a charity, it is clearly done out of the goodness of people’s hearts. Blood donors are urged to donate up to three times a year, with at least a 16-week gap in between each donation so that the blood and cells can regenerate.

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Being a Muslim Teen in the UK

August 2007

Being a Muslim Teen in the UK

by Somayya Gefori

The United Kingdom is home to millions of Muslims

Illusionary Freedom

The first thing that a lot of Muslims who don’t live in a Western country think is that it must be a very bad place, full of temptations to commit all kinds of sins. That may be true, but if you stay close to your deen, ultimately you will begin to see that Western people aren’t so free.

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Life with the TV: 21 tips for dealing with the thing

April 2007

Life with the TV: 21 tips for dealing with the thing

by Abdul Malik Mujahid

Reprinted from Soundvision.com

Exact source URL: http://www.soundvision.com/Info/parenting/tvtips.asp

Teenage Muslim life and strategies

Not everything that comes through TV is bad. However, because the average child between two and 11 years old watches over 27 hours of poorly supervised television per week; because the only thing that kids do more than watch television is sleep, and because most parents are unaware of the indecent liberties that television takes with our children, you must control this 19 inch Shaytan, as a friend of mine calls it.

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